"I'm Done with Physical Intimacy" : Can You Relate?

 
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Reasons you may feel done with s*x and physical intimacy?

I loved this list that came out of our vulnerable discussion in my Facebook group this week...

Do you relate with these?

REASONS YOU MAY FEEL DONE WITH S*X AND PHYSICAL INTIMACY:

  • You’ve been doing it out of obligation

  • penetration is occurring before your body is actually ready so it is painful rather than enjoyable

  • You are not feeling emotionally available to your partner for some reason

  • There is past trauma or occurrences that have you numbing out of your body and not able to be present with the pleasure or the pain that’s there for you

  • You’ve never experienced erotic pleasure before

  • You think erotic pleasure is not possible for you

  • You’ve never been given permission / given yourself permission to enjoy the universe of pleasures of physical intimacy

  • You’ve never been taught or discovered how to enjoy physical intimacy

  • You don’t know your bodies so you aren’t able to approach yourself or guide your partner on how to approach your body in a way it can open you up and blossom instead of clench and cringe

(List credit to my colleague, Monica Jayne at Unabashedly You Coaching)

 

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